Thursday, March 6, 2014

8 Things Every Freshman in College Should Know

It's currently three in the morning. My homework is done (ish), I've finished mending my clothes, and I'm about to pop into the shower and head to bed. After all, my first class tomorrow is at three-thirty.

But first, some listing.

Recently, I've been thinking about college. Not hard to do, really. I live here. Reflecting back on my first semester, I've come up with a list of things that all freshmen need to consider when they move in.

There're books and books about this kind of thing, but here's my humble, handy-dandy list-y version.

1. Get involved. I know, I know. This is the first thing people tell you when you get to college. I'm just rehashing this old point BECAUSE IT'S TRUE. Most colleges have something for everyone, but no one's going to walk around and tape fliers to your dorm door. Usually there will be some sort of activity fair where all the clubs set out tables and distribute free stuff. Besides the fact that everybody love free stuff, you'll find out what your college has to offer. Added benefit? You'll have fun. You'll get to meet new people, go new places, and develop new skills!

2. Learn to sew. WHAT. Yes. Because duct taping your clothes every time they tear is just going to look tacky. Even if you're a dude. It's not terribly hard to pick up, and it's a practical skill that is often overlooked. Sewing will help your clothes last longer, so you won't have to go out and buy new things all the time. College budget for the win! Which brings us to our next point...




3. Budget your money. Another practical skill. Running out of money can land you in hot water very quickly, and your parents aren't always going to be there to fish you out again. Set aside certain amounts for certain things, for example, "I'm going to set aside this amount of money just in case I want to go out to eat this month." And so on. On the subject, there's a pile of receipts on my desk calling my name, waiting to be filed...




4. Academics first. Because that's one of the reasons why you're here. If you don't want to study and further your education at this point, then maybe it's not the right time for college. Experiences are important at this time in your life, but your academics in college do matter. High achievement equals good scholarships and more open doors for future opportunities. Another thing is that if your grades get too low, then out you go. There's also the fact that you're paying thousands to get an education, so you might as well make the most of it.

5. Balance your lives. By this, I mean your pre-college and current college lives (post college is another matter altogether). Stay connected with your friends from home, but don't rob yourself of exciting new experiences by not embracing what's going on around you now. On the flip side, don't sever all ties and complete alienate yourself from your family and not-in-your-college friends. They still have something to bring to the plate as well. Here's an old saying for you to ponder: "Make new friends, but keep the old, one is silver and the other gold."

6. Manage your time wisely. A lesson I'm still learning. The day only has 24 hours, and chances are, most of them are going to be full. Time is precious, and you never get a day back, so get done what you need to get done. As a master procrastinator, I'm probably not the best person to be telling you this, but seriously. Watch that clock.

7. Find ways to de-stress. I know you've heard of finals week, the bane of the college kid's existence. Trust me. People talk about it with fear for a reason. Tons of things in college can cause stress, like social shindigs, commitments, and academic deadlines. Stress only builds up unless you can find some way to release it, or else you'll drive yourself mad. Different stress busters work for different people, so find something that suits you that you can enjoy.

8. Be you. We have a saying here at Baylor: "I love Baylor, because here you can just B U." Which is not always the case. People often bind themselves in social standards, thinking that they have to look or act a certain way. College is where you find yourself, and how can you find you when you're trying to be someone else? Don't invest yourself in things you don't enjoy just because society says that you must. Your worth is not measured in the objects you possess or the friends you have, or where you come from. Sink your teeth into this, kids:

"You are valuable because you exist. Not because of what you do or what you have done, but simply because you are."
~Max Lucado





I've said this before, and I'll say it again: you get out of college what you put into it. For better, or for worse, college is the adventure of a lifetime. So hang on and enjoy the ride!



Pictures found on Google. 



Wednesday, February 19, 2014

Putting God on Trial: Why Does He Allow Us To Suffer?


I'm going to forewarn you that this is a really heavy topic from my mind and soul. I've had to think about this for a while, but this afternoon, everything clicked together, and I felt that this post needed to be created. You'll see in a moment. 

But first, a little background. A few minutes ago, I saw a Facebook status written by a friend questioning why God allowed us to suffer. You see, there have been various articles about the murders of innocent children floating everywhere on my news feed.



The first part of the title comes from the fact that this afternoon, my British Literature class did, indeed, put God on trial for the very same question:

If God is a loving God, why does he allow us to suffer? 


Let's get something straight, though. Man is a sinful creature. Nobody is truly a good person. 
"There is no one righteous, not even one; there is no one who understands; there is no one who seeks God. All have turned away, they have together become worthless; there is no one who does good, not even one. Their throats are open graves; their tongues practice deceit. The poison of vipers is on their lips. Their mouths are full of cursing and bitterness. Their feet are swift to shed blood; run and misery mark their ways, and the way of peace they do not know. There is no fear of God in their eyes." (Romans 3:10-18)

Because humanity has free will, we are free to choose evil over good and cruelty over kindness. Yes, some people choose to take the lives of the blameless as well. 
But He has a plan. Believe it or not, God knows what he's doing. 
For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.(Jeremiah 29:11)

But if He didn't have plans for evil, then why does He let all these things happen? 

Honestly? I don't know. I'm not God. I don't know why He does the things He does. Sometimes I question His judgement as well. But 1 Corinthians 13:12 says, "Now we see things imperfectly, like puzzling reflections in a mirror, but then we will see everything with perfect clarity. All that I know now is partial and incomplete, but then I will know everything completely, just as God now knows me completely." 

But remember. Jesus was being truthful when he told us that there would be suffering. (John 16:33) He was right, wasn't he?

Another thing to keep in mind. Because God hates sin, the evil WILL be brought to justice. Even though it looks like they’re waltzing in freedom, it’s only temporary.

“For God will bring every deed into judgment, with every secret thing, whether good or evil.” (Ecclesiastes 12:14)

God is not ignoring all the bad things that are happening in this sinful world. His idea and timing of judgment are different from our own. However, His judgment is swift and final. And it WILL come.

Last thing. Don’t forget this one. John 16:33 says, “I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.”


Read that last bit with me again.

I have overcome the world.

God’s not dead. The world may be a horrible place to live in, but ultimately, God is in control. His plans aren't ours, but that’s what trust is for. We have to trust Him to get us through life. We have to trust Him to guide the families of those children into His wings.  In the meantime, however, we can pray. We can pray that God will bring the murderers to justice and that He will comfort the families and help them to forgive.

Even though I can’t claim to know God’s plans and pinpoint His exact reasoning, I do know that, just like in that old song that we used to sing in Sunday School, “He’s got the whole world in his hands”.

Throughout all the suffering humanity has to endure, that thought brings me peace.





Sunday, February 9, 2014

Exiting the Bubble

They say the campus of Baylor University is like a bubble. A safe, green haven where we can live our little college student lives without ever leaving. And for the most part, for me that is, that's the case. I have everything I need at Baylor. Shelter, food, clothes, exercise, friends...why would I ever need to leave?

But I do leave. Every Tuesday and Thursday when I go to teach at a local elementary school for my service hours. Every Sunday, Tuesday, and Wednesday when I go to church and my small group.

And today I left again on my quest to find sustenance.

I had attended the 8:30 a.m. service with my discipleship leader, staying oddly alert with only four hours of sleep the night before. The moment I arrived back to the dorm, I hopped back in bed. I took a four hour nap after reading a chapter in my book. When I woke up, however, it was too late to head over to the Penland dining hall (we call it "P-Nasty") for food. So I left  the bubble in search of fast food.

After a long trek, I settled for Jack-In-The-Box. Unfortunately, I realized when I got there that I had taken the long way; there was a shortcut right in front of the restaurant.

But it wasn't so unfortunate.

 I left campus. I left the bubble behind, even if it was for some greasy fast food.
The sense of normalcy in our lives is like a bubble. If we don't leave it, what opportunities are we missing? What delicious Jack-In-The-Box tacos are out there that we don't devour because...we're too lazy? We're too scared to walk over the highways and through life's metaphorical sketchy neighborhoods? 

Sometimes to find ourselves, to make it to that next stepping stone, to move on with our lives, we have to leave our comfort zone. We have to exit the bubble. This was a hard lesson I had to learn when I left Japan when I was twelve. It was hard when I had to leave my family behind and strike out on my own.

If you stay in that same bubble all your life, what will you lose? 

I've lost some battles, but I've grown some too. And it's been worth it in the long run. 


Jack-In-The-Box tacos are completely worth the long walk I have to make to procure them. 

Saturday, February 1, 2014

Introducing...A New Project!

I'm actually quite excited to share this one with you all. This particular project focuses on my photography. When I was registering for classes for spring semester, my adviser, who is a photography professor here at Baylor, told me that to be a great photojournalist, I would have to practice my photography every day.


But I didn't. 


Life, social obligations, and laziness got in the way of practice. So here's where the project comes in. What I plan to do is take a picture each day during the month of February. If I can get in the habit of a photo a day, then hopefully I can get into the mindset of practicing more often.

I've aptly titled this project "Photoary".

To find my snapshots from this month, click on the "Photoary 2014" tab at the top of the blog!

Let's put practice makes perfect to the test, shall we?






Monday, January 20, 2014

¡Fiesta!: A Tale of Sandwiches, Chips, and Marching Band

...And cacti. All of the cacti.

As you may or may not know, dear Reader, good ol' Baylor U made it to the Fiesta Bowl during this past football season. As one of the few BCS bowls in the country, we were all pretty thrilled to be bringing the Baylor Nation to Glendale, Arizona.

For all of you non-sports aficionados, not every bowl game during bowl season is a BCS bowl. Going to a BCS bowl = good. Moving on. 

As a member of the half time entertainment, otherwise known as the marching band, we were invited to various kick-off parties, not to mention that bowl regulations for bands say that we have to be there three days early. That means more practice time for us. Yay.

I'll give you the day by day. Now I must warn you, this is a rather text-and-photo heavy post.

12.29.13 ~Sunday

Leaving at four in the morning, my parents and I made the ten hour drive down to Baylor to meet up with the band. Out of those ten hours, I slept for about eight of them.

After saying good-bye to the parental units, checking in, and picking up my merch (bowl game t-shirt, jacket, meal money (per diem), luggage tag...), we all grabbed our catered sandwiches from Jimmy John's and piled onto our charter buses for the twenty-one movie filled hour journey to Arizona.

Our bus was Bus #5, home of the trumpets and the color guard.

I called it the Grumpet bus.

(Sometime between Sunday and Monday, we stopped at a couple of gas stations in the middle of nowhere. Sometimes I imagine the faces of the staff as they watch six charter buses pull in, and their curious gazes turn to horror as the miniature army of 300 zombified band members swarm inside, stumbling to the bathrooms or to the shelves upon shelves of Red Bull.) 

12.30.13 ~Monday

We piled off the buses into the warm Arizona sunshine. Our location? A swanky mall where we were to eat lunch. Unfortunately, it was really crowded that day, so band members quickly formed groups to navigate the food court. Safety in numbers, right? After a delicious meal of Panda Express, back onto the Grumpet bus I went.

It was time for practice.

But not without a stop at the hotel, though. Even though we were running behind schedule, we were given an hour to say hi to the roomies, get rid of the luggage, and freshen up before practice. After practice would be our first performance of the night: The Tostitos VIP pep rally. Everyone washed their faces and pulled on their rally uniforms (which includes a polo shirt).


On location at Chaparral High School.

Practice was at a local high school. We ran through drill on the field for a while, then loaded up the buses again to head to the pep rally. Once there, we were told to mingle with the marching band of the opposing team. The University of Central Florida Marching Knights, to be exact.

Mingling was a bit of an awkward experience, I mean, both marching bands had gotten in that day, and we were ready for sleep...in an actual bed. I did, however, find out a pretty cool fact about UCF's color guard. Since they're an east coast guard, they use poms in the stands! Even the guys on the team were carrying their own set of poms around.

 Mingling. See that awkward nose near the top of the shot? That's mine.

Luckily, Tostitos provided us with some snacks (not Tostitos, I'm afraid), so we felt a little better.

Right before the festivities began!


Then...the battle of the bands. Baylor vs. UCF. The mascots and cheer squads wove in around us, and champagne-toting VIPS spectated from afar.

Then of course, there was this thing.

Meet Spirit, the official mascot of the Tostitos Fiesta Bowl. Run, Bruiser, run!

After the epic showdown...dinner time! By that time, it was about 9 p.m. We were all ravenous. As it happened, the Grumpet bus missed a turn to our restaurant, and we got to tour suburban Arizona...in the dark. While the residents stared on in horror, the Grumpets proceeded to have a sing-along.

We made it to a delicious dinner though. There I learned that eating a half a hen is quite a bit harder than it sounds. Because it was actually half of a hen. It wasn't too bad, though. And the dessert of cinnamon ice cream and apple pie was out of this world!

But the best part? There are actually two. One, the way you enter Rustler's Rooste is by going down a slide into the belly of the restaurant!

A fellow guardie enjoys the slide. 

Two, there was a dance floor. I'm going to mention that quite a few of the band members, including myself, are a part of Baylor's swing dance society. You can probably guess what we did then.

After an all around good time, we headed back to the hotel for a much needed rest.

12.31.13 ~Tuesday
You know what's funny? All of my roommates at the bowl game are in the swing dance society. So to warm ourselves up for the day...we danced. 

Practice that morning. Luckily it was warm enough to wear shorts! Thank you, Arizona! After a lunch of sandwiches, we ate on the bus back to the hotel for some much needed down time. One of the roommates decided to teach me a particular swing dance called the shim sham. We worked on it all afternoon, that is, until we had to get ready for the night's double performances.

Pre-game Run On: Practice Edition
(more like High-Step On)

It takes a color guard member about three times as much time to get ready for a performance as an average female band member. At least, it didn't take my flute-playing roommates too long.

Our first performance was the Baylor pep rally. I was pleasantly surprised at how many Baylor fans showed up. Hundreds. And the student bus hadn't arrived yet!

Dancin' at the fence.

After plenty of cheering and listening to speeches, we had a dinner of NOT SANDWICHES. I'm not complaining, but rotisserie chicken from Boston Market, while delicious, is a tad hard to eat on a bus.

We munched as the buses carried us to our next destination. The zoo.

I had never performed at a zoo before!


Both bands were performing that night. A definite plus was that we had room to spin. Usually when the color guard goes to events, we don't have room to do anything with the flags, so we gently set them down and dance around to whatever song the band is playing.

We really did spin, but we were just holding the flags when the picture was taken.

When our performance was over, back to the buses for a night of fun at a place called Main Event! To simply describe it would be saying it was like a Chuck E Cheese's for adults. They had snacks, but also video games, an elevated rope course, bowling, and lazer tag. Our band director had reserved a corner for us as a New Year's treat. I mean, we could get all the soda we want, as well as free bowling, ropes, and lazer tag!

 For the games, a card had to be bought previously. I never got around to doing that, but my guard captain let me swipe her card a few times. The ropes course was pretty easy, as I had done quite a few of them before, but it was my first time at lazer tag! I...didn't do so well. (But I'm getting better! I've played a couple of times since!)

So ringing in the new year was pretty exciting, but I was ready for some sleep. After all, the big game was the next day!

A small New Year's present from our guard coach. 

1.1.14 ~Wednesday
THE BIG DAY HAD ARRIVED. We had practice that morning, sandwiches for lunch (by then, it was a running gag), and bustled around the hotel pulling on our uniforms.
The stadium was much farther away than all of us had initially thought, many people decided to take advantage of the extra time and take a snooze.


Getting ready to head to the tailgating shows! Can you spot the stadium in the background?

Two tailgating shows awaited us when we arrived. We had to walk quite a distance to get to them, though, wading through somewhat drunk tailgaters.


The two pep rallies were more like one huge mega tailgating pep rally. 

After the tailgating shows were finished, after going through security check (Hey! Just because we're the halftime show doesn't mean that we don't have to get our bags checked!), snagged our sandwiches for dinner, took advantage of the nearby port-a-potties, and got settled in our seats...where bags of Tostitos awaited us upon arrival!

Finally! The chips! The moment we've been waiting for!

Once the meal was done, we got ready for pregame. BUGWB was first up. As I was making my way down from the stands, I saw three cloaked figures holding swords. No, no those weren't bad guys. Those were UCF's drum majors! One even smiled at me.

Pregame was a success!

Pre-game Run On: Performance Edition

Go, guard, go!

As I was leaving the field, I glimpsed UCF's color guard waving at me from their starting line on the field. They were giving me the thumbs up and mouthing "Good job!"

People can be so nice.

Until one of UCF's drum majors proceeded to stab the field.

You read right, folks. The drum major went and ran the field through with a sword.

I suppose that's allowed. Especially when the drum majors wear masks that make them look like they don't have faces, and especially when they get an announcement following the butchery of the field saying, "The knights of UCF would like to do battle with the bears of Baylor."

What.

It's official now. 


Practice in the equipment room...that you could easily drive a semi through.

When we entered the equipment room, though, our mascot, Bruiser was still putting his pads on. The bear head was lying on the floor nearby. So, of course, one of the color guard had to scream, "OH NO. BRUISER'S BEEN DECAPITATED!"

Foreshadowing to the game ahead?

Eventually, we were all crying into our chips. We weren't completely slaughtered, but we did lose.
The ride back to the hotel was somber and silent. Probably because we all cried ourselves to sleep.
Even though this is just football, losing is still a hard pill to swallow.

At least the halftime show went well. I was even given another thumbs up by a male UCF guard member...One of the same ones who had waved at me before!

Waiting in the tunnel before halftime. 



1.2.14 ~Thursday
Breakfast with the roomies at a nearby Einstein's. Those bagels, though. Deeeee-lish! I was not traveling back with the band. As an out-of-stater, I had the option to fly (thanks to a reimbursement!). So one of my dormmates from school collected me from the hotel, where I had been lounging around for a while; the band had already left.

RGIII was at that airport at the same time I was. But his gate was on the other side from where mine was, so I couldn't go creep on him. Darn. That was the second time on the trip that I had missed him. The first was when he walked by the storage room when I was tucking my flags away.

Another funny thing? A fellow Grumpet was on my flight home.

I made it safely from pleasantly warm Arizona to bitterly cold Missouri, where there was still snow on the ground. I was excited to see my parental units, though. They had so graciously come to collect me at the airport.

Exhausting as the Fiesta bowl was, I'm glad I got a chance to experience the madness for myself. Even though we lost, it was an amazing experience.
I must say, I absolutely love what I do.


BUGWB Color Guard 2013...minus one. 

Oh, and one more thing. 





He's watching you. Alllllways watching.






*Pictures do not belong to me. My guard coach is the master with the camera phone here.



Monday, January 6, 2014

New Year, New Adventures!

...And hopefully more blog posts! I hope to be posting regularly, now. New year, fresh start, eh? 

There's so much for you guys to be caught up on! My break, for starters, has been full of traveling...which just so happens to be my favorite thing! I've flown twice and been through ten states. All I need to do is visit another country during this last week of freedom before school starts and then I'll be golden! Okay, I'm kidding. 

At the moment, I'm a little snowed in. 




But what have I been up to?

Right after I flew home to Missouri, off I was again to visit my family in Alabama and Georgia, where I spent my first Christmas in a hotel. 

But look at this cute lil' tree, though.

Probably the most unusual Christmas I've ever had, but it's about who you're with! I was with the people I love most, celebrating the One I love most. It was still a beautiful day. (It helped that we got to watch The Hobbit: The Desolation of Smaug in theaters too...)

After a quick day or two back in the Midwest, my parents drove me south so I could catch the 20 hour bus with BUGWB (Baylor's marching band) to Arizona, where I performed in the Tostitos Fiesta bowl! (A post will probably be dedicated to that experience later, so stay tuned!)


The Baylor Color Guard...minus one. 

At the moment, though. I'm curled up in the recliner, trying to keep myself warm, and munching on my new obsession...tea candy!

Hello, delicious.

But I'll leave you with some of my goals for this year: 


-Write more
-Read more
-Photograph more
-Write my testimony
-Write some movie reviews (did I ever tell you guys that I do this for fun?) 


See you all again very soon, and more posts to come! Stay warm!








Saturday, December 14, 2013

Frozen: Maggie vs. Elsa

In handy dandy list format!

So a couple of weeks ago, I saw Disney's new flick "Frozen" with my friends Ashley and Austin. While my usual style would be to write a review (even though I haven't posted of any of those yet), I decided to analyze this movie in a different way: Through the eyes of a character.

Elsa, in fact. Throughout the film, I was able to relate quite a bit to Elsa's plight, especially during her big musical number, Let it Go.

For those of you who might be unfamiliar with the premise of Frozen, I'll fill you in a bit. Frozen is about a young princess named Anna, who goes on a quest to find her sister Elsa, who accidentally put the Nordic inspired kingdom of Arendelle into a deep freeze. With the help from realistic-and somewhat-grumpy ice seller Kristoff, his crazy reindeer Sven, and cheerful snowman Olaf, they journey to Elsa's ice palace to bring back summer...before everyone freezes.
 (Except Olaf, naturally.) 

But how much are Elsa and I really alike? Let's find out, shall we?

Maggie       

VS. 

Elsa

Now that we've met the contenders, LET THE GAMES BEGIN. So, uh, this may not be the easiest thing to read, but it was the easiest for me to format so you could read. Savvy?

MOVING ON.


Maggie:     
                                                                                    
                                                 -Cannot stand the cold                                                          
                    -Does not have ice powers (as far as she knows)                      
                 -Is not a princess (but let me have my delusions of grandeur, okay?)
                                          -Has a little brother: Kevin                                                   
                                             -Brown hair, brown eyes                                                    
                                         -Current profession: College student                                       

Elsa: 

   -"The cold never bothered me anyway..."
                                    -Is able to manipulate snow and ice. A blessing and a curse
 -Heir to the throne of Arendelle
-Has a little sister: Anna
 -White hair, blue eyes
 -Current profession: Queen


Similarities:
-Oldest sibling
-Likes the color blue
-Snowmen are fun
-We can both rock a braid. 
-Bound by other's expectations
-Strive for perfection
-Bottled up our feelings inside
  (to an unhealthy amount)
-We also don't fall in love easily
-But we love fiercely 
-Awkward at parties
-Awkward in general
-Musical numbers
 (Okay, trivia time. I have done musicals, and I can highlight that in another post, but the voice actress for Elsa, Idina Menzel, played the original Elphaba the Broadway musical Wicked, which happens to be one of my favorite musicals of all time! End trivia time.)
-A bit of a cold exterior towards new people 
(I'm working on this one.)
-INTROVERT. INTROVERT. INTROVERT.


What do you think? Am I actually quite a bit different from Elsa? What Frozen character can you relate to? Keep in mind that I may add more to this list if I come up with anything else.

But the movie itself. SO, SO EXCELLENT AND WONDERFUL. Ahhhhhh, the feels.
I'll leave you with some stills of this treasure. 







From left: Elsa, Kristoff, Olaf (top), Sven (bottom), Anna, Hans


Worth watching? DROP EVERYTHING AND GO SEE IT NOW. 






















*Pictures do not belong to me.